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Designed to work with your lube

Provides warming and cooling tingle sensations

Herbal formula enhanced with natural extracts


stim for him

$14.00 $11.20

delivery every
  • All orders are shipped in discreet packaging for your privacy.
  • Free shipping on any order over $50.
  • Your pleasure and satisfaction are 100% guaranteed or Cake will refund you.

how to get started

ease into the sensations

Whether playing by yourself or with a partner, get ready to intensify your penis play. Start with 1-2 pumps of Stim for Him to test the sensations before using your favorite lube.

enhance the feels

Loving the sensations? Customize your level of intensity by adding more pumps of Stim for Him. It’ll make you feel ohh so good! Once you found your perfect amount, lather on your favorite JO lube, we recommend So-Low Lotion!

enjoy your partner play

Don’t keep the experience to yourself! Partner with a penis? Give your partner Stim for Him to get in on the sensations. Partner with a vagina? Try Tingle to Mingle, a stimulating arousal gel for the clitoris.

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discreet packaging

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frequently asked questions

  • Ingredients, Size & Cautions
    Size: .5 fl oz
    Stim for Him materials are: Water (Aqua), Propylene Glycol, Dimethicone, Glycerin, Polysorbate 80, Oleth-10, Sodium Hyaluronate, Mentha Piperita (Peppermint) oil, Kwao Krua Dang (Butea Superba) Extract, Aloe Barbadensis (Aloe Vera) Leaf Extract, Caffeine, Niacin, Menthol, Carbomer, Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin, Aminomethyl Propanol
    Caution: Not intended as a contraceptive. Do not apply to irritated skin. If irritation occurs discontinue use and contact a physician if irritation persists. Avoid contact with eyes. For external use. Keep out of reach of children.
  • Key features
    • Apply prior to any other product to get best results
    • A stimulating tingle sensation
    • Increases pleasure during play time
    • Perfectly pairs with So-Low Lotion for penis play
    • A water-based formula
    • Fragrance free
    • Easy clean up
  • What is the ph level?
    The ph level is 6.12.
  • Is it vegan and/or gluten free?
    All of our lubes and lotions are gluten free and are made of vegan ingredients. All of our products are animal cruelty free!
  • What is a good amount to start out off with?
    We suggest starting off with about a dime size (about 1 -2 pumps). All of our bodies are different so sensation levels vary. Allow 3 - 5 minutes for it to absorb into the skin to gauge if more is needed.
  • Do I have to wash this off?
    Stim for Him does not need to be washed off. It absorbs into the skin to provide heightened sensations. Because of this, we recommend that start with 1-2 pumps to test how intense you want the sensations to be.
  • Can Stim for Him be used with toys?
    Yes! It is safe for use with all toy materials, including latex.
  • Can I use this with condoms?
    Yes, Stim for Him is safe to use with condoms. The peppermint oil in the formula is in such a small amount that it will not compromise the condom. Think of Stim for Him as the sock and the condom as the shoe. Apply the Stim for Him first before putting on the condom. We don’t suggest putting Stim for Him on the condom as this is intended for external use only. The sensations may be too intense for your partner otherwise.
  • Can I use this for anal play?
    Stim for Him is intended for external use only. It is not a lubricant.
  • Can I use this during intercourse (vaginal or anal)?
    Stim for Him is intended for external use only. It is not a lubricant. The feelings might be too intense internally. No need to wash off though if you have used it during foreplay. It absorbs into the skin and won't cause any harm.
  • What's the difference between Stim for Him and Tingle to Mingle?
    We only highlight one or the other because we find them specifically more enjoyable for that specific body part. The real only difference is Stim for Him has peppermint oil and Tingle to Mingle has cinnamon oil.
  • Does it ever expire?
    The expiration date can be found on the bottom of each bottle if applicable, along with the lot code. Once opened, they are good for 12 months.

stim for him reviews

Once I let this absorb into the skin, my mind was blown... which led to even more explosions.

what customers are feeling

Can't beat the tingle

Unreal feeling, legit don't think I can ever jerk off without it now... the subscription is gonna come in handy.


This & So-Low lotion is the way to go

Didn't really think they were telling the truth but using this with So-Low lotion was .... uh yeah, well didn't last long if you know what I mean. 5 stars for this new pair



I was a little shocked how intense it was, in a good way, def recommend if you're trying to mix it up.