Although many don't like to talk about it, sex toys are very common among the community. Otherwise, there wouldn't be a $33.6 billion industry devoted to them!
If you're new to sex toys, we promise, they're a game-changer whether you're spending the night alone or with company. Among sex toys for people with penises, one stands out more than all else, the pocket pussy.
So, what's a pocket pussy, and do they really feel that great? Let's talk about that and how to get the most out of yours!
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What's a Pocket Pussy?
A pocket pussy is the most common term for the most popular sex toy for people with penises. These toys are exactly as their name suggests; a small, portable, synthetic vagina.
Essentially, these toys are made of soft, rubbery material with a hole designed for a penis, usually known as jelly rubber. However, there are some materials to avoid.
Typically, these holes are made to feel tight, and they often come with different texture patterns inside, much like a vagina.
Some have one hole, some have two to model after the anus and vagina. Some are designed to replicate the mouth while others may have a smoother interior. Some have hard outer shells while some are simply made of rubber material.
Regardless of the design, shape, or size, these smaller synthetic vaginas are most often referred to as suckers or pocket pussies.
Choosing the Right Pocket Pussy
We always recommend choosing a pocket pussy with a hard outer shell or holder. The reason for this is that, well, your penis is probably wider than you realize, and it will quickly stretch the pocket pussy material.
However, when the outside isn't allowed to stretch beyond a certain point, your pocket pussy will maintain its tightness over time (and of course, we love that).
You'll also want to measure your penis and find a toy that meets your dimensions. If it's too small, you may bottom out, and if it's too big, it won't be as pleasurable. Either way, you won't get the most out of your toy.
Also, you can get various models with different interior textures, outside designs, and more. Some are shaped like a butt and are larger, allowing you to easily lay it down and have sex with it, while most are portable and handheld, hence the name "pocket pussy."
These are entirely determined by your own preferences, so try them out and see what you like!
How To Use a Pocket Pussy
Now that you know what a pocket pussy is and how to choose the right one, it's time to put it to use! Here's how to get the most out of your pocket pussy!
Masturbate
The obvious way to use a pocket pussy is to improve your normal masturbation. It's an entirely different sensation when it isn't your bare hand touching your penis, so it should be a major improvement.
We always recommend using warm water to heat your sex toys beforehand, as they are rarely microwave compatible. (Don't try to find out!)
From there, most sex toys are designed for a water-based lube, but it should say it on the box. Most lubricants are water-based, but oil-based lubes are also common and may destroy your toy. Cake’s Toy Wonder is perfect for this, as it can be used with all most common materials of pocket pussies.
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If you're using a pocket pussy without a hard shell, we recommend holding firmly onto the toy to avoid excessive stretching, but experiment and see what works & feels the best for you.
Also, as a pro tip, there's usually a hole at the top of the outer shell. If you go all the way down on your shaft and hold your finger over the hole, it creates a vacuum inside, offering more suction. Try it for yourself to see if you like it!
Simulate Sex
With a pocket pussy, you can easily step up your masturbation game and use it in ways you never could with just your hand. As long as you can find something to hold your pocket pussy in place when you're in a comfortable position, you can essentially have sex with it. And trust us, it feels ohhhh soo good!
Again, there are toys specifically designed for this, but you can make do with any pocket pussy. We highly recommend using this method as a primary masturbation technique if your pocket pussy lacks a hard outer shell.
Keep it between two couch cushions and find the right angle, lay it flat on the bed below you, or get creative! There are plenty of ways to try and get off.
Use It With a Partner
If you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom, you can always try having your partner use the pocket pussy. Whether you are looking for steamy foreplay or if you’re partner isn’t up for sex, when somebody else is using a pocket pussy on you, the sensation can be comparable to oral sex. That is, assuming you have the right pocket pussy!
Also, if your partner is not in the mood for penetration, see if they're up to simulating sex with you by holding it between their legs! Your options are endless.
Caring for Your Pocket Pussy
Do not skip this section if you've never used a pocket pussy before. The materials pocket pussies are typically made of are porous, and when you use a water-based lubricant (along with semen, sweat, and open-air), it invites microbes, mildew, and mold to take over.
Remember, the same way that STDs and STIs are transmitted through your sex organ, bacteria and other pathogens can enter when using a pocket pussy, so it's very important to keep your toys clean.
However, with some simple cleaning methods, you can use your pocket pussy for a lifetime. Here's how.
Washing
It's very important to wash your pocket pussy after every use. At the very least, use warm water to rinse it out after each use and use the appropriate Cake’s Toy Cleaner every few times. Typically, we'd only recommend this if you plan to use it again within the same day.
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However, this may still result in unwanted inhabitants in your toy, especially if you leave it uncleaned for too long.
If you want your pocket pussy to last for a long time, then there is no way around it. Clean it with your sex toy cleaner every time (ensure it's compatible with your toy first) and rinse it thoroughly with warm water.
If you do notice any discoloration or concerning spots on your toy, feel free to boil it for ten minutes, just to be safe.
Remember, excess water, especially trapped inside the hole, may invite mold or mildew to grow. Properly drying your toy is just as important as washing it.
Drying
After washing your toy, use a strong paper towel or cloth that won't flake and dab the outside of your toy. Dab as much of the inside as you can without stretching the hole too much.
Once done, slap it or hit it against a surface a couple of times to bring some of the moisture in the middle close to the surface and try to clean it up.
Once relatively dry, it's important to keep it that way! You can sprinkle a little corn starch for drying your toys, and we highly recommend using it to keep your toys dry and fresh.
Apply the powder to your toy, inside and out, until you're certain that it's dry. Then, it's ready for storage.
While this all sounds complicated, we promise that this entire process takes less than two minutes, especially once you're used to it. It will also keep your toy healthy for a long time.
Storing
After it's completely dry and powdered, store your pocket pussy wherever you feel comfortable, but try to keep it away from the sun, heater, or any humidifiers.
When you decide to use it again, run it under some hot water to both warm it up for comfort and remove any powder from the inside. The extra water will also make your water-based lube more slippery and enjoyable!
Enjoy Your Toy
Now that we've answered the question "what's a pocket pussy" and offered some helpful tips on getting the most out of yours, why not have some fun? If you order the right toy and follow these tips, you can enjoy it for as long as you want!
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