the 3 steps to better sex

Ready for the most fun self-improvement course there is? Starting with step one, read on (and play!) until your heart’s content, before moving on to the next step and so on. We’re pretty sure you’ll thank us later. Cheers to a better sex life.

getting to know yourself

The first step to better sex with your partner is better sex with yourself.

Coming Out as Demisexual: a journey with Rima Mellal

We sat down with our newest friend Rima Mellal to talk us through how sexuality is more than just a physical thing, but a spiritual journey. She wa...

the ‘how-to’ guide for solo vulva play

10 exercises to help you keep things interesting during solo play.

the 'how-to' guide for achieving an orgasm w...

Our tips and tricks on how to achieve the different kinds of orgasms with a vulva.

the 'how-to' guide for solo penis play

10 exercises to help you keep things interesting during solo play.

consent & communication

The second step to better sex with your partner is learning how to communicate, when and ONLY when it's consensual.

We’re partnering with Dr. Donna, sex expert, to help...

As Dr. Donna puts it, “Some bomb-ass communication can lead to some bomb-ass sex.”

the "how-to" guide for consent

It's time to learn the ins and outs of consent, so you know when you have the green light, and when you have to pump the breaks.

sexual preferences quiz

Okay, so we’ve figured out how to get ourselves to reach euphoria. Now, how do we explain how we got there to another person?!

try something new

The third step to better sex with your partner is bringing out that adventurous side, and starting to explore new ways to play in the bedroom.

How to Guide: giving a rimjob

‘Rimming’ may sound like a neat skateboard trick, cooking technique, or new dating trend. But it’s actually a colloquial term for an anal sex act. ...

How to Guide: exploring kinks

Maybe you want to blindfold your boo or spank your spouse. Or maybe you want to get really heighten the kink quotient and mummify your mate or whip...

How to Guide: to strap on sex

Strap on sex is for all sorts of couplings. This is advice from a married lesbian couple for couples looking to try strap on sex / pegging for the ...

How to Guide: exploring your fluid sexuality

We are just really beginning to understand how fluid, curious, & ever-changing our sexualities can be. This exploration can be lots of fun and ...

How to Guide: killing stereotypes of anal play

Tips & tricks for exploring butt play & killing the dated stereotypes with certified sexologist Gigi Engle

how to have a threesome

Lesbian Wives Teach You: How to have a Threesome

how to take the perfect nude (for dudes)

There's plenty of options out there to get the perfect sexy selfie for all you ladies...but not so much for our fellow fellas. We're here to shed s...

the 'how-to' guide for anal

A beginner's guide for all things 'butt stuff' related.

the ‘how-to’ guide for toys

Okay- it's time to play.