And not only that, we’re not taught how to communicate about sex…especially sex for pleasure. The idea of talking about sex, even with a trusted partner, can feel daunting. But the more you do it, the more comfortable you’ll be doing it—both actually communicating and well, actually doing it. 😉
This challenge is all about verbalizing what makes you feel good while you’re masturbating. Both of you! You can both masturbate together or take turns watching one another. The point is to openly share the sensations you’re feeling with your partner, in a matter-of-fact way.
Start with something as simple as “The texture of the lube feels great on my penis,” or “I have goosebumps running down my back.” Share the sensations you’re experiencing clearly and directly.
You don’t have to get into what’s called “dirty talk,” at least not before you feel comfortable. It’s normal to feel embarrassed and shy vocalizing these feelings out loud to someone else, but that’s why it’s a part of the challenge. Better communication leads to better sex!
Try it out! Better sex and better communication will come your way!